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To Have Loved and Lost

To Have Loved and Lost is an Alliance-only quest for level 20-60 in Drustvar. It is step 1 of 7 in the Drustvar Chapel storyline, the opening step. The quest's turn-in marker is in Drustvar at 23.3, 17.4. It rewards 1 reputation reward, 1,000 experience and money.

Description

I have a favor to ask you of a... personal nature.

Whitegrove Chapel lies to the north, just past the town of Corlain. Someone... important to me rests in the graveyard on its grounds.

I've been unable to visit his grave for some time, and I would like to pay my respects. If you come upon Whitegrove Chapel, could you lay these flowers next to his headstone?

Just look for the most recent grave there...

Rewards

Money2 gold57 silver40 copper
Experience1,000 XP
ReputationOrder of Embers +10
Top Comments

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2
varenne+8via Wowhead (opens the original comment in a new tab)

Place the flowers at the gravestone in Whitegrove Chapel north-west of Corlain.
/way Drustvar 23.31 17.49 Gravestone

To Have Loved and Lost quest video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gaLbBKqjYTo
This quest is a part of Whitegrove Chapel sidequests in Drustvar.

ID
Quest
Sidequest Chain
Questgiver
Zone
Video
100<
To Have Loved and Lost
Whitegrove Chapel
[npc=131641]
Upper Corlain
https://youtu.be/gaLbBKqjYTo
101
Painful Memories
Whitegrove Chapel
[npc=135200]
Whitegrove Chapel
https://youtu.be/WfhkzKmQ0UI
102
Running Late
Whitegrove Chapel
[npc=134953]
Whitegrove Chapel
https://youtu.be/FUzxRtNIeXI
103
From This Day Forward
Whitegrove Chapel
[npc=134953]
Whitegrove Chapel
https://youtu.be/kfzg6jXNfgM
104
Blood in the Chapel
Whitegrove Chapel
[npc=132994]
Whitegrove Chapel
https://youtu.be/BO0qcIr-hBw
105
The Lady's Fate
Whitegrove Chapel
[npc=132994]
Whitegrove Chapel
https://youtu.be/6v7U_p2ywsE
106
One Last Request
Whitegrove Chapel
[npc=135200]
Whitegrove Chapel
https://youtu.be/3VhA1zzBus8


Id column is approximate quest № In Drustvar storyline (Drust Do It. <= for more info)

After completing this quest chain return to Whitegrove Chapel house, go upstairs and loot the closet.
You'll get [item=163603], which allows you to return to Whitegrove Chapel past.
Lucille's Handkerchief video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNg9M0D57H4

3
Cirosh+2via Wowhead (opens the original comment in a new tab)

So I did neither find Lucille on my toon which didnt quest nor did I find Lucille on my toon which did every quest for the story at first. For me, she stood on 36.8 50.11 in Arom's Strand on the toon, which quested through the storyline. Couldnt find her on the toon which didnt quest.

Hope this helps you guys!

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Rewards in detail
TypeRewardAmount
ExperienceXP1,000
MoneyGold2g 57s
ReputationOrder of Embers+10

Reward details

Reputation: Order of Embers +10

An ancient Kul Tiran order resurrected to battle the threat of witchcraft, the Order of Embers fights with knowledge guiding their blades.

Reputation group: Battle for Azeroth.

Other quests in Drustvar that reward Order of Embers reputation: Pieces of History (+75), Through the Old Roads (+10), Silver Blades (+75), Honorable Discharge (+75), The Order of Embers (+3,500), A Lesson in Witch Hunting (+75).

Item facts are the current retail client’s (ItemSparse); the specialisations for a pick-one item are the ones the Blizzard quest API lists; faction and currency text is the client’s own. Lowest listed price = the US commodity auction house now.

Where it comes from
Turn-in mapDrustvarTurn-in marker at 23.3, 17.4, 2 mapped points
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Where to go

Pins are the quest’s own POI points from the current retail client, projected onto the in-game zone map. The game marks one blob as the quest’s turn-in; the rest are objective areas. Points that fall outside a map’s window are dropped rather than guessed at.

Drustvar Quest turn-in 2 mapped points
Drustvar map showing where to go for To Have Loved and LostTurn-inObjective area

In-game waypoint: /way #896 23.3 17.4

Coordinates

  • Turn-inDrustvar 23.3, 17.4/way #896 23.3 17.4
  • Objective areaDrustvar 23.3, 17.5/way #896 23.3 17.5

Map coordinates of the pins above. An area the client draws as a shape is given by the centre of its points.

Nearby on the Drustvar map

Quests whose map markers the client places closest to this one on Drustvar, nearest first. Distances are straight lines between the markers.

Getting there

Alliance flight points closest to the quest’s turn-in marker on Drustvar:

  • Whitegrove Chapel, DrustvarAlliance and Horde · about 140 yards east
  • Watchman's Rise, DrustvarAlliance · about 700 yards south-east
  • Anyport, DrustvarAlliance and Horde · about 1,000 yards south

Straight-line distances in yards between the quest’s own map markers (QuestPOI) and the client’s flight-point positions (TaxiNodes); flight paths and terrain are not modelled.

Quest Line

Storyline

Drustvar Chapel

Part 1 of 7.

Next: Painful Memories

  1. 1To Have Loved and Lost
  2. 2Painful Memories
  3. 3Running Late
  4. 4From This Day Forward
  5. 5Blood in the Chapel
  6. 6The Lady's Fate
  7. 7One Last Request

Storyline order is the client’s own QuestLine data from the current retail build.

Where this quest fits

After this quest

Taken from the storyline's own step order.

  • Painful MemoriesDrustvar · Level 20-60

    A terrible thing happened in this place, and it has doomed me to an eternity of walking these grounds. All I remember is that Lucille and I were to be wed, but instead I met my end. If you have an ounce of sympathy in your heart, then I beg you to help me.

The storyline at a glance

Drustvar Chapel has 7 steps, from To Have Loved and Lost to One Last Request.

Maps its steps are placed on (steps per map): Drustvar (7).

Other storylines on the Drustvar map

Steps, storylines and map placement from the client’s QuestLine, prerequisite and QuestPOI data; neighbouring quest text is Blizzard’s own (quest API), shortened to its opening sentences.

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